Give and Get

Got this from a friend:

Whatever You Give...
"Whatever you give a woman,
she's going to multiply.
If you give her love,
she'll give you a baby.
If you give her a house,
she'll give you a home.
If you give her a groceries,
she'll give you a meal.
If you give her a smile,
she'll give you her heart.
She multiplies and enlarges what
is given to her.
So- if you give her any crap,
you can expect a ton of shit!"

Ok, so blunt but yet so true - practically beneficial.

Read this from Robin Sharma's The Greatness Guide Book II:

First Principle(s) for Great Relationships
1. Be the first one to say Hello!
2. Smile a lot.
3. Use people's name.
4. Look people in their eyes when you speak to them.
5. Become a world class's listener.
6. Offer sincere compliments.
7. Treat EVERYONE like royalty - yes, EVERYONE.

Great, so lovingly said and highly inspirational.
To simply put it - In Great relationships, You'll get what You Give.
Multiplied!

What a beautiful Synchronicity!

p/s: I love it when this happens more and more frequently in my life, hurray! :-)

I can Predict Your Future almost 100%

Saw the Movie entitled "Next" by Nicholas Cage, cool one; like the style and the way he walks...
Reminds me of an email sent by my friend and client, as she wrote:

"So I thought, maybe this is a sign. I am not big on reading signs. Mostly I do not wish to believe in them but sometimes, you just want to believe because you are not always in control of the situation and I have been feeling much of that of late.

So there I was in Pandan Indah picking up a guy whom I have never met before but believes because Guy says he is trustworthy. I was not feeling anxious of scared. Just a little curious, maybe a little skeptical of how the rest of the evening will progress. I was waiting outside his condominium. In a way, he looked like how I would imagine he would. A medium built man, very fair but gentle looking. He looked kind and that is most important. I felt like I can trust him in an instance. So far, I have not been wrong about the characters of those I choose to call friends. We drove to a nearby eatery. It is dimly lit, with slightly overpriced ya-ya looking drinks. He chose a slightly bigger table so that he could place his cards. Cards, I asked? Tarot cards? No angel cards and there is a difference. Angel cards are aided by angels, he said. I raised an eyebrow. Of course I did. My experiences with tarot cards are all from shows like CSI.

"So, tell me your story," Ching Wei started.I am wondering where to begin. In the beginning would be good. The spot I identify to be the beginning of the end of me and Brandon. It started with Brandon quitting his job and pursuing a dream which did not materialize. I tried to condense the past 6 years in 15 minutes. I spoke about my anger, frustration, disgust, contempt and ultimately, a demise of feelings for him. And then I went to Mark. How we met, how important he is in my life now, and yet non-existent in a way......

Ching Wei took some cards out. Asked me to choose some number and then placed the cards out in a pyramid of 9 cards. As he spoke, I noticed he took some cards out. He said those were my future and in his line he does not tell people what their futures are else it becomes self-fulfilling. Geez, isn't this why people seek fortune tellers? To read the fortunes of the future? But I understood what he meant and I shut up.

He said to me – Do not worry. Everything will be all right. But if you do something drastic, like divorce your husband now, or leave Mark or whatever, then only disaster will fall. It wouldn't even be a win-lose situation. It'd just be lose-lose. No one will benefit. He said I am not at peace with myself. I cried when he said that. I couldn't hold it in. The tears just streamed. He cannot be more accurate. I have problems being with me. I go crazy and I can't sleep. I do not know why I feel this way or when it started to be like this because I didn't start out in life being like this. As a growing kid, I spent hours in my room alone. Creating my own world. Doing my own thing. Now it seems like I cannot function without company….even with company I do not like, like Brandon's. I fear being alone and this fear is crippling. And even though I know Mark and I seem all wrong, I can't leave him because he has become someone important in my life.....

And so there. I have written what I set out to do after speaking to Mallory about my reading with Ching Wei. She said I should write it down lest I forget. She is right. And now that I have, what's next?"

March 2008
Anita

Yes.
I can predict your Destiny.
Almost 100%.
YOU ask, "How???"
Well, by understanding what you think, say and do... your Here and Now (unless you are really NOwhere!)
With the aids of some intuition and divination tools.
"What if I change them?" you may ask. Meaning you wanna change your Here and Now.
Fine, a powerful Point.
(The Power Point of Change, is really Here and Now - now you got the Secret!)
Then your future will change accordingly.
(but even the change is also Predictable!)

Well, CHANGE is simply SIMPLE - but not Easy!

Hence I like what Nicholas said in the Movie:

"When you look at Your Future,
It Changes....
and that changes EVERYTHING else...."

Now, you should understand why the most wonderful and accurate tool of divination tool or oracle book from the East is called Yijing - the Book of Change!

and at the back cover of the "Next" it writes:
" If You can see the Future
You CAN Save it!"

Just DO It!!!

Really like Wayne Dyer, his voice, his attitude, his inspirational books.
Read his book, together with the audio cassette. What a synchronized wonderful experience, a 'Wow! That's great!' kind of deep feeling.
Great Knowing as well.

He says:
1. Do not let other people's opinions affect your attitude and behaviour.
2. Let go of the outcome or results of your actions or contributions.
3. Release the need or attachment to control other's views or behaviours.

Splendid, really hit me.
Straight to the point.
Just like a Zen Koan.
I've gained the Wisdom of NO ESCAPE.
My Ego was shot dead, straight away immediately.

Have you felt betrayed/ignored/rejected/taken for granted RECENTly?
You are not alone.
Me too.
Been there, felt terrible!

So my advice is: just practice these three principles.
They are magical mantras that work magics.

Give it a try.
You don't have to believe me.
But you will TRUST the wisdom after walking the talk.

refuse to try? not yet convinced?
don't know HOW? too simple, but NOT Easy?
my mom said I can't do it?
I don't have time/money/support/resource/partners/friends to help me?

Here's another one.
Take NIKE's advice:
Just Do It!!!